Somehow, I managed to avoid the genealogy "bug" when it
originally went through our family a few years back. My Aunt spent a
great deal of time researching my Mother's side of the family (the Places and
the Martins). She documented all the relations and put together
reams of information. My brother-in-law spent a lot of time
researching and documenting my husband's side of the family (the Floracks and
the Witters). He also put together massive amounts of information.
In the back of my mind, I always wondered about my Dad's family (the Fords and
the Furness's), but I never wanted to take the time to wade through all the
information to try to figure it all out. I never had the bug, but recently I felt
the need to start looking around.
I was always told my Grandmother (my Dad's Mom, Gertrude Furness) and
her family came from the Black Forest in Germany. I always wondered
what city in Germany they came from. No one seemed to know. My Dad
has been dead 25 years this year. I wish I had asked more questions
about his family and relations while he was still alive. I knew his parents
were older when he was born, and he was an only child. I vaguely
remember my Mom telling me there was
another son, but he didn't live. He was named Charles. My
grandparents then had my Dad and named him Charles, too. I guess
they were determined to use the name Charles.
Charles \ch(ar)-les\ as a boy's name is pronounced
charlz. It is of Old German origin, and the meaning of Charles is "free
man".
My Dad was named Charles (Charles Ford, Jr.). His deceased
brother had been Charles. My Dad's Father was Charles (Charles Ford,
Jr.). [My Dad should have been Charles Ford III (or IV)]. My Dad's Grandfather was the original Charles
Ford. I also discovered that my Grandmother's Father was also
Charles (Charles Furness). I am seeing reference online to Charles
Furness and Charles Furness, Jr. – I am not sure if they are the same person or
not. My son is Matthew Charles. I
told him to wear the name proudly. It's been in the family a great
many years. [On a similar note, I discovered there was also a
Mathias Florack (born in Germany) on my husband's side of the family. He
"Americanized" his name to Mathew when he emigrated. Therefore,
my son is not the first Matthew/Mathew Florack].
Castle in the Black Forest in Germany |
My Dad's father died when I was only 8 days old. I was told that
my Grandmother was making his lunch (as she did every day), and when she went
in to take it to him, he had had a heart attack and passed away in his
chair. I was a newborn baby so my Mother could not go to my
Grandmother's aid. My Aunt went instead.
My Dad's mother died when I was 2 or 3. I have no memories
of her at all. My cousin Carole (who is a year older than me)
remembers her. I really wish I did. I do remember that my Dad had an Aunt
Carrie and an Aunt Minnie. Aunt Minnie was my Grandmother's older
sister. Aunt Carrie was a boarder (according to the census reports)
who lived with the family at one point. My Grandmother's oldest
brother (Leo) married a lady named Carrie. I suspect it is the same
lady. I met one of my father's aunts (I can’t remember if it was
Carrie or Minnie). I don't remember how old I was, but I do remember
going to this lady's house, and she had canaries that she raised. I would guess
I was older than 3 but probably younger than 7.
I was able to discover that my Grandmother was born around 1888 in this
country. She had a sister (Minnie) and 2 brothers (Leo and
John). The oldest brother (Leo) was the only sibling actually born
in Germany. The family emigrated when he was 2. Every
census report that I have found that mentions my Great Grandfather (Charles
Furness) lists him as "widowed". I recently found some old
Rochester city directories that list a Charles Furness who was married to a
Fanny Mundell. I do not know if Fanny
was Gertrude’s Mother, stepmother or some other relation. I also have not been able to discover where
in Germany the family came from so my original question (and reason for
searching) is still unanswered.
Genealogy is interesting; it can also be a lot of useless
information. It is nice to know where people are from, but without
photos or without personal knowledge of these relations, it can get a little
confusing. There are many names that are similar, and there are
several people with the same name but with different birth places. There
are also occasions where you know you have the right person, but the dates
listed are different from one census to another. There's no one to
ask if you have the right ancestor so it can get a little discouraging, too. Also,
having access to U.S. information only takes you so far. To dig
further and find out where in Germany my family is from I will have to pay
additional to access the International records. I have not yet
decided whether it's worth it or not just to have a city name.
During my searching, I did find my sister. On the Monroe
County website where they have the Mt. Hope and Riverside Cemetery records, I
found the records listing her gravesite. She is listed on December
29, 1949 as Infant Daughter of Charles Ford. Her age is listed as
-1. Cause of Death is Prematurity. She was born at St.
Mary's Hospital (same place my brother and I were born). I now have
a location, and I will try to find her grave. I don't believe she
had a headstone. I had not originally gone looking for her, but I found her
anyway. Funny how that worked out.
I know this is of little interest to anyone other than me. I understand now why people spend so much time on researching their ancestry. It takes a great deal of time to sift through and make sure you have it right. I have figured out some bits and pieces that I did not know, but I have a long way to go before I get it right.
My mom probably knows where her gravesite is. Funny, I thought she was at Riverside.
ReplyDeleteShe is at Riverside. The records I found were for Mt. Hope AND Riverside. I know vaguely where she is - my Mom showed me once. It's an unmarked grave so I'd have to ask the office there what section if I wanted to find her.
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